4 Things You Don't Want to Forget

In his book, How the Mighty Fall, Jim Collins references the Anna Karenina Principle. The principle comes from Leo Tolstoy’s book, Anna Karenina,which begins: “Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.”

Collins makes the point from the quote that there are more ways to fall than there are to become great.

Let me suggest four:

1 – Forget what got you here.  There are certain disciplines and practices that helped you to achieve the success you have. Taking your eye off of those things will eventually bring you down. Those who are ruthless in their discipline are the ones who remain successful. If you find yourself struggling, maybe now would be a good time to go back to doing what you used to do when you were in a growth mode.

2 – Forget where you are going. Why are you in business? What is your mission? Those are questions that need to be asked often. They should shape your decision making, resources, and your alignment as an organization. If you stop focusing on why you exist, you are headed for a fall.

3 – Forget who helped you along the way. All leaders need to remember that many people have invested to help them get to where they are.  Be grateful and make sure you express your thanks to the appropriate people.

4 – Forget who you are trying to help. Just as someone invested in you, you should in turn invest in someone else. The point of your leadership is not to create a better life for yourself, rather to leverage your influence to bless others. The happiest people I know are more others focused than they are self-centered.

Today is a great day to . . . refuse to forget.



Is there something else you would add to my list?


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Patricia Freeman Nesberg

8 years ago

I will incorporate these into places I visit frequently (my business plan, my journal). They are too important to place on a bookshelf. Thank you for sharing. And I add 5 – Forget your loved ones. They provide the earth we all need. It is through their eyes and thoughts that God often speaks most intimately.


8 years ago

So true, Patricia. Thanks!


8 years ago

Randy – excellent read as always on a Monday morning. I also suggest we always remember “Don’t Forget why you are doing what you are doing”. It’s important as well.
Have a great week!


8 years ago

Thanks Joel. Hope you have a great week too!

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