Walking a Mile in Someone Else's Shoes

I am about to the point where I need a contract with a shoe company. Why? I have four growing daughters … Need I say more?

Recently, the youngest informed me (once again) that she had outgrown her running shoes. I told her to borrow some shoes from one of her older sisters. She looked at me like I was from Mars and said, “Dad, you can’t wear someone else’s shoes.”

Who knew?

As leaders it would be a good thing if we could walk a mile in someone else’s shoes.

All around us there are people who are walking a difficult road. People with cancer. People who have lost their jobs. People with kids who are headed down the wrong path. People with debt, relational failure, obesity, loneliness. The list of struggles is never ending.

Now you may be thinking, “I have some of those same struggles in my own life.” While that may be true, chances are someone around you is in a much more difficult situation.

What if you took a different approach to the hard things in your life? What if instead of dwelling on how bad things are for you, you decided to look for someone who is going through something harder? What if you reached out to them with a word of encouragement or a note to let them know you are thinking about them?

You might find that doing so would cultivate a little more gratefulness in your life. And gratefulness is a great way to attack your problems. There is always something to be thankful for, yet most of us spend our time thinking about what we don’t have instead of what we do have.

You can wear someone else’s shoes if you choose to. And if you do, you might just find that yours fit a little bit better than you thought they did.

Leadership Begins at Home,


I would love to hear what you are thankful for

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Coach Brown

7 years ago

I can relate to this story well. As the oldest son when I lost my wedding band one day when working in my yard, my mother sent me my father’s wedding band to serve as the replacement. They had been married for 58 years when he passed away. I cherish the miles the rings represents! Thanks for the reminder as today would have been my dad’s 88th birthday.


7 years ago

Awesome, Coach! Very special heritage.

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